Wednesday, October 20, 2010

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE

In every relationship,situations, patience is needed to succeed.There is virtually no success we can attain in life without patience.Even though we live in a jet age where everyone is in a hurry to succeed,patience is still indispensable.
We require patience to face the rigors of acquiring the relevant education,skills we need to get wealth.Even in the corporate and business sector,success does not come easily,we need to patiently endure,strive hard to achieve our goals.
Beloved,we cannot succeed in any type of relationships without patience.In our dealings with family,spouse,children,parents,friends,patience is indispensable.This is the reason why impatient and intolerant people often have problems in their relationships.Therefore cultivate the habit of been patient with everyone and in every situation,and you will surely succeed.Cheers!!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

COURAGE TO SAY NO!

The inability to say "NO" at the right time has led to so much frustration and at times grave consequences in the lives of many.Some people just find it difficult to say no to certain categories of people;for some it is the opposite sex,for others it is friends and relatives they cannot say no to.They end up doing things that are clearly against their conscience and wellbeing.
Below are some of the people or thing to say no to:
1,SAY NO TO BAD FRIENDS:Many lives have been ruined due to negative influence of friends.Most bad habit like drug addiction,alcoholism,prostitution are usually trace to peer group influence.
2,SAY NO CORRUPTION.
3.SAY NO ALCOHOLISM.
4SAY NO TO DRUG ADDICTION.
5,SAY NO ANGER AND BITTERNESS.
6,SAY NO ENVY AND JEALOUSY.
7,SAY NO TO DIVORCE AND BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS.
Finally,examine yourself to discover your area of weakness,and learn to say no at the right time.Do not be afraid to hurt some people in the process,as long as you are doing the right thing you will not regret your action.