NEVER TOO LATE

Once again we are almost at the end of another year, how do you feel; joyful? apprehensive? moody? For those who have achieved their goals for this year, it is excitement galore, but for many who have not been so fortunate so far, it is a time of apprehension and at times sadness. Do not despair, it is yet over, there is still time to achieve your set goals. Focus on what you want, assess your performance so far. Secondly , you need to appraise your strategy and see how your can get a better result. No matter what happen, have faith in God, who makes all things beautiful at his own time. Thank God that you are alive, thank him for what he has done for you and family so far. Above all, believe you can still achieve your set goals for this year. It is not over, until it is over!!

BEWARE OR FRUSTRATION

Have ever wondered why some go to the extent of committing suicide? It start from feelings of dissatisfaction, disappointment and gradually it builds up to become acute frustration. No one is immune to such negative feelings, because we all go through our various trials. But your attitude and the way you deal with such feelings will determine whether it will just go away or lead to bigger problems. Frustration does no come suddenly, it's a gradual thing. It creep into your mind and like a seed it germinate and bear fruits of anger, bitterness, suicidal tendencies. We must as a matter of personal policy never give room to frustration in our lives. Problems are part of life, they will always come and go, you must as an individual, have an inbuilt system to handle difficult times and avoid frustration. TIPS ON HOW TO AVOID FRUSTRATION; 1, Do not allow negative thoughts to dwell on your mind for too long. Purge them out, by focusing your mind on more pleasant happening in your life 2, Make yourself happy. Do whatever gives you joy; sing, dance, listen to good music, visit friends with good sense of humor, change your looks etc. 3, Identify the source of the problem and deal with it calmly and rationally. 4, Talk to someone who is in a possible to help you. Seek wise counsel. Do not keep quiet and die of frustration. Read books dealing with the problem at hand. 5, Above all, turn to the almighty God who us able to solve every problem of life and who will also give you peace even in the midst of difficult situations

LAUGHTER, IS MEDICINE

Life is full of ups and downs! There are so many issues creating stress in our lives; ranging from family problems, failed relationships, job- related problems; as such some people do not even smile anymore, and laughter is completely ruled out. There are so many benefits of laughter, which are needed even more in stressful situations. Laughter can help you to manage stress; laughter can dismantle depression. Laughter can help you to defeat fear and worry. If you are sick , laughter can stimulate your healing process. Even those who study medicine have told us that laughter has psychological, social and even spiritual benefits. Laughter relaxes all tensed muscles and lower your blood pressure. Laughter can pave way for a new and exciting life for you , A smile creates happiness and it fosters good relationships. Laughter is the cheapest tonic we can enjoy; don't let a day go by without laughing at least once! Learn to smile more, and laugh when happy and even when sad!

Be Yourself

You can never please everybody, even if you try.There will always be times when you are compelled to say NO to somebody even when it hurts. So many people are in difficult situations today because they refused to act when it mattered most. For instance a friend tries to introduce a business to you which you feel uncomfortable with, what do you do? Politely say NO, no matter long or deep your friendship is. Many people are in prison today because of one bad influence they could not control. There are times you just have to "offend" even those you hold in high esteem by telling them the trust when you know they are wrong.Some people find it difficult to tell their bosses or even their parents and friends that they are wrong, even when they are sure, they see it as a sign of respect. At the end when things go wrong, they become bitter towards the same people they refused to correct. Self- denial often leads to regrets, make your point politely but firmly, do not be afraid even if the other person is offended; most proud people or those who think they are better than you will always take offense when you correct them. The bottom line is, let the right things be done whether in the home, family, office, school, business, relationships etc. Be yourself, if you try to please everybody, you will end up pleasing nobody. Cheers!!!!

THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS

The ability to forgive is one attribute we must imbibe in order to have meaningful relationships in every aspect of life- family,marriage,career,dating,friendships.
If we are sincere, we would realize that so many failed relationships,businesses or even career can be trace to our inability to forgive our offenders.Some people are in the habit of bearing grudges,keeping malice at any slight provocation.At times they allow few minutes misunderstanding to spoil a relationship they have built over time.
Some people cannot forgive because of their excessive pride, they rather wait for an elaborate apology from those that wronged them before contemplating forgiveness.This is very wrong, because forgiveness should be apart of our life, it should be given to all,whether they deserve it or not
REASONS WHY FORGIVENESS IS POWERFUL;
1,Forgiveness brings peace to everyone involve, especially you who has been magnanimous to forgive.
2,It project you better in the eyes of others.It is not a sign of weakness,rather it shows maturity and dignity
3,It enables God to forgive you, and release you delayed blessings
4,Finally, when you forgive others, people find it easier to forgive you when you offend them,remember no human being is perfect you are bound to offend others occasionally too.
Therefore learn to forgive no matter the situation.Unforgiving spirit is a burden you must cast away. Be at peace with yourself and your fellow human beings. FORGIVE!
FORGIVE!

NO VENTURE, NO GAIN.

What are the things you really desire now? Pause, and think of that special need in your life.Is it more money,husband/wife,good job,children,good health,peace in the family etc.The list is endless,as our faces varies, so do our needs and aspirations.
Now,what are you doing to realize your dreams? It is one thing to identify a problem,it is even more important to know how to obtain solutions to such problems.No matter how long a problem has existed and how much you have tried to resolve it, you must never gift up until the solution comes.There is no impossibility with God.
The first thing to do, is to deeply and prayerfully analyze the problem to know the source of it, and to identify mistakes we may have made in the past which is hindering the manifestation of the solution.
Secondly,utilize new strategies to realize your objective,when one road close, another opens.There are always many genuine ways of solving a problem.Do not fall into the trap of believing that you have done all that you can humanly do to achieve your goals.
The solution maybe in doing something totally different from what you are used to.As long as the method use is legal and is not against God' doctrine try it out,it may just work out.For instance,some people have meant their spouse through social network sites or even adverts in magazines which maybe regarded as unconventional.They tried it, and it worked for them.
Some have become rich through internet marketing.Many of become parents using the advanced reproductive technology in the world.
Finally,always do research on ways to get out of any difficult situation.And in everything you do, do not forget to put God first.Every genuine and good success can only be achieve through the support of the almighty God; trust in him.

WHO IS YOUR ADVISER?

This is question we all have to ask ourselves.It is a well known fact that no man has a monopoly of knowledge,at one point or the other there might be need to seek counsel concerning very important issues.The adviser and the quality of advice given may determine the outcome of a situation.Acting on wrong advice may lead to bigger problems.Therefore the person or people you turn to for counseling is very important.
Some people have the habit of narrating every issue or situations in their lives to friends,invariably they are more likely to be bombarded with different shades of advice, at times detrimental to their wellbeing.Some take their relationship issues to their friends and family members, who at times advice them base on sentiments.
Who then should be your adviser?
1,Someone who has shown the ability to be sincere and trustworthy.
2,Someone who is more knowledgeable in the area you need advice.
3,Someone who has your best interest at heart.Do not ask for advice or counsel from anyone you are not convinced is favorably dispose towards you.
4,Someone with the fear of God in him/her.This is very important because godly counsel is ultimately the best even though you may not like it at the time it was given.
5,Finally,allow the word of God to counsel you.There is nothing you need that has not be taken care of in the word of God.Meditate on the word of God,have a close relationship with your maker,you will have all the answers to your problems.Christ is your ultimate counselor!

GOODBYE YESTERDAY.

Is funny how time flies? the first month of the year is already going,but have you put your experiences of last year behind? Some people have this habit of dwelling so much on the past that they become almost 'blind' to the reality of what is happening at present.
The fact that you did not succeed in what you set out to achieved last year should not deter you from reaching out to achieve that same goal this year.As long as what you desire is good,it can be achieved.You may need to utilize different strategy,find out what went wrong and make corrections.
You also need to be patient and be positive in your thinking and outlook.Put the past behind you,embrace today with joy and pray for a better tomorrow.
Once again,wishing you a great and wonderful year ahead.Cheers!!!

COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.

The end of another year! So many things are going through people's mind right now.For some,they are happy because they have had a wonderful year,for others it is tales of woes and disappointments.
Whichever category you belong to,count your blessings instead of your losses and you will be surprised to see that despite everything,God has done a lot for you this year.
The mere fact that you are reading this article alive and well is enough to appreciate God for,remember many lives have been lost during the year.We must not always relate blessings to money and material things alone,at least you did not starve throughout the year,therefore thank God for sustenance.
What of your family? at least something worthwhile must have happened to someone during the year,appreciate God for it.Carefully analyse the last twelve months and you will pleasantly surprised that you have had a great year after all.
BENEFITS OF COUNTING YOUR BLESSINGS;
1,It boost your morale,restore the joy you need to celebrate the new year.
2,You are able to recognize the areas you need to focus on for greater fulfillment.
3,It brings you closer to God,because the Lord loves those who appreciate him.
4,You are able to encourage others.
5,Finally,remember; when you are grateful for the little you have God will do more for you.
Therefore,start counting your blessings now,you will be surprised what the Lord has done!!

GIVE,AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE!

This is usually my favorite season of the year,there is so much excitement that is almost infectious.There is much expectations from family,friends, colleagues and loved ones.
Unfortunately,many people do not realize that they have to do more of giving than just waiting to receive.And do not say that you have nothing to give,because there is so much in you to give:love,care,joy are things you can give that will cost you nothing.
Giving is not always about money and materials things,but it is also necessary to spend your money to make others happy.Do not withhold your resources,use it to bring joy into the lives of those around you and you will surely receive more.Your rewards may not be instant,and might not come in the same form,but it will surely come when you need it most and would fulfill your heart desire.
The following are those you can reach out to in this festive season:
1,Family
2,friends and colleagues
3,The homeless,motherless.
4,The elderly
5.The physically challenged
6,Whoever you are lead to by the spirit of God.
Please do not wait for people to give to you first before you give and do not be tired of giving, even when it seems not to be appreciated.God will reward you! So give love, care,material gifts,talents,money,even a smile!Happy celebration!!!

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE

In every relationship,situations, patience is needed to succeed.There is virtually no success we can attain in life without patience.Even though we live in a jet age where everyone is in a hurry to succeed,patience is still indispensable.
We require patience to face the rigors of acquiring the relevant education,skills we need to get wealth.Even in the corporate and business sector,success does not come easily,we need to patiently endure,strive hard to achieve our goals.
Beloved,we cannot succeed in any type of relationships without patience.In our dealings with family,spouse,children,parents,friends,patience is indispensable.This is the reason why impatient and intolerant people often have problems in their relationships.Therefore cultivate the habit of been patient with everyone and in every situation,and you will surely succeed.Cheers!!

COURAGE TO SAY NO!

The inability to say "NO" at the right time has led to so much frustration and at times grave consequences in the lives of many.Some people just find it difficult to say no to certain categories of people;for some it is the opposite sex,for others it is friends and relatives they cannot say no to.They end up doing things that are clearly against their conscience and wellbeing.
Below are some of the people or thing to say no to:
1,SAY NO TO BAD FRIENDS:Many lives have been ruined due to negative influence of friends.Most bad habit like drug addiction,alcoholism,prostitution are usually trace to peer group influence.
2,SAY NO CORRUPTION.
3.SAY NO ALCOHOLISM.
4SAY NO TO DRUG ADDICTION.
5,SAY NO ANGER AND BITTERNESS.
6,SAY NO ENVY AND JEALOUSY.
7,SAY NO TO DIVORCE AND BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS.
Finally,examine yourself to discover your area of weakness,and learn to say no at the right time.Do not be afraid to hurt some people in the process,as long as you are doing the right thing you will not regret your action.

DO YOU WANT TO MOVE FORWARD?

Some people have become frustrated because of certain limitations in their lives.Which aspect of your lives do you desire a more rapid progress? It could be in your finance,your career,your education or even your relationships.
First,IDENTIFY the area you really need to move forward and start planning how to achieve your desire.
AVOID PROCRASTINATION:there is always the tendency to delay taking certain decisions that maybe beneficial or otherwise to our lives .Therefore whatever needs to be done for you make progress should be done without delay.For instance,if you need more education for a better career do it,if you need to work harder in your relationship for you to have success,please do it
STOP BLAMING OTHERS; take responsibility for your mistakes:IF you really desire to move forward,stop pointing accusing fingers at others,as those responsible for your problems.Blaming others for your problems will only make you bitter and more frustrated.
DO NOT GIVE UP:Remember,that winners never quit,therefore be determined to move forward no matter the obstacles on the way.Avoid people and situations that would discourage you.
DO HANDOVER THE SITUATION TO GOD;The almighty God is the "unchangeable changer" He change every negative situation in your life.
Finally,I encourage you to be determine to move forward physically,financially,maritally,and in every other area of your life that you desire rapid progress.

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING!!

Money! money!almost every activity in the world is geared towards getting money.Our daily lives,struggles is directly or indirectly link to money,to the extent that daily, many lives are being enriched while others are destroyed because of money.No wonder the bible says that money is good and also says that money is the root of evil.
Here let us dwell on certain facts about money:
1,Money is good:This is very correct because there is hardly anything in this world that you do without money.Many people have died because of lack of money for proper medical attention,some have even starved to death because there was no money.Others are struggling and in misery daily due to poverty.Therefore to have sufficient money is good,and something for everyone to strive for.
2,Money cannot buy you happiness:There are so many rich but miserable people all over the world.Having money does not translate to happiness.A man that is rich but have poor health and poor relationships may not be a happy man.Therefore we must not only strive to have money,but make the necessary effort to be in good health so that we can enjoy the money,in addition,cultivate good relationships with family,friends and everyone we are in contact with, this is beneficial for our general wellbeing.
3,Money cannot buy true love:It is a sad thing for some people to erroneously believe that they can have any man or woman they desire because of their wealth.Even if you succeed,such relationship will never last,you will only end up with a feeling of being used without the joy and satisfaction that true love brings.
4,Money cannot guarantee peace:Many people believe that all the problems in their lives will just vanish as soon as the have a lot of money and so they strive and strive to become rich.Sadly,many become disappointed when this is not the case.In fact,having too much money has its own peculiar problems.
5,Finally,money is not everything:Do not become a slave to riches.There are so many other ways you can make positive impact to in family and the society at large without using money.Use your talent,show love and be committed to enriching your lives and that of others physically,spiritually in addition to utilizing your money wisely for the benefit of all

BE HAPPY NOW!

So many people go through life unhappy because they tie their happiness to the availabilty of one particular need in their life.This need can vary from the little issue of lack of finance to more complex issues of getting a life partner and children.One thing is certain,as long as we live,there would always be problems;as one problem is solved another might surface,therefore to postpone ones happiness because of unsolved problems could mean that the person might go through life unhappy and unfulfilled.
The following are some keys to happiness:
1,Do not dwell on the problems:Some people have the habbit of constantly thinking and analysing their problems turning an otherwise minor issue to "giant" problems.The ideal thing is for you to focus on the solution and not the problem because there is always a solution to every problem.
2,Count your blessings:No matter your state right now I am sure there are still some good things in your life.Just look around, there is always something to be grateful for,no matter how insignificant it seems,the fact you are alive and able to read this article is enough to be happy for.
3,Put your trust in God:Commit everything into the hand of God who is more than able to give you peace and strenght to face the challenges in life.
Finally,remember that problems are part of life,therefore be happy now!Your happiness should not depend on your blessings but on God.Cheers!