Saturday, May 8, 2010

DIVORCE IS NOT THE ANSWER.

In recent years,the rate of divorce all over the world has increase tremendously.The reasons given varies,infedelity,domestic violence,incompatibility are some of the reasons given for suing for divorce.But is divorce really the solution? NO!Before you even think of it the following are "wisdom keys" that will put your marriage back on the right part.
1-Identify the main problem:we must understand that every marriage/relationship has its own perculiar problems,there is no relationship without problems.Your willingness to identify your own problem and your ability to deal with it, will determine the success or failure of your marriage.
2-Honest Communication between couples.This type of communication must be devoid of anger,bitterness and suspicion for it to have the desired result.For instance if you have already made up you mind that your spouse is the one at fault, you are not likely to have meaningful communication.Both partners must be ready to point out each other's area of weakness and they must be ready to take corrections.
3-Patience and tolerance is an indispensable ingredient for a successfull m
arriage.

1 comment:

Stella Oladiran said...

wonderful!Trully divorce is not the answer.