What would you say is the highest form of love?
My random sampling got the following answers.
Some people say, it is giving of our resources and money to loved ones.
Others says, it is giving adequate attention to someone that indicate true love.
Yet some people even believe that true love does not exist.
To answer my question, I bring you the good news that true love is real and beautiful.
And that to FORGIVE is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness. Learn to forgive, it pays!
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
Sunday, November 25, 2012
HOW FAR YOU CAN GO.
Consciously or unconsciously we put boundaries in our minds on how far we can go in the ladder of success in life. If your mind has already concluded that you cannot rise above a certain level, so it will be.
Therefore what you think is very important in determining your strategy of success: think positive, believe you can still succeed in that worthy venture even when it seems impossible.
Remember, if you give up in your mind, failure is certain. But a winning-mentality will propel you to succeed.
Therefore what you think is very important in determining your strategy of success: think positive, believe you can still succeed in that worthy venture even when it seems impossible.
Remember, if you give up in your mind, failure is certain. But a winning-mentality will propel you to succeed.
Friday, October 19, 2012
DECIDE TO BE HAPPY
Friends, learn to praise God in whatever situation you are. So many people suspend their joy until a particular need in their lives is meant; In the process they go through life almost always miserable because life is full of ups and downs. As long as we live, there will always be needs and aspirations. Learn to be happy. Make yourself happy. Do what makes you happy. Refuse to be sad.
Laugh, even in difficult situations. Laughter is actually medicine. It has healing powers.
Remember this: Happiness is a choice, so decide to be happy no matters what happens to you.
Laugh, even in difficult situations. Laughter is actually medicine. It has healing powers.
Remember this: Happiness is a choice, so decide to be happy no matters what happens to you.
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
NEVER GIVE UP!
The most important things in life have been accomplished by people who kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope all.
Never give up!
Never give up!
Saturday, May 19, 2012
WHO CAN STEAL YOUR JOY?
Winning Formulas. Beloved, do not allow anyone, any situation to steal your joy. Many people easily become depressed, sad, because of the inevitable conflicts that is a part of every relationship- family, marriage,dating, friendship etc
If your allow the state of your relationship with loved ones to determine your state of mind, you will constantly be setting yourself up for depression and lack of joy.
Similarly, if every negative situation in your life result in sadness, there is every likelihood that you may never really be happy in life. This is because of the fact that life is full of challenges, as one problem is being solved, another may spring up. You may not be able to control these situations, but you can control your reaction to them.
Make up your mind to be happy. Happiness is a choice. No one can steal your joy unless you permit it!
If your allow the state of your relationship with loved ones to determine your state of mind, you will constantly be setting yourself up for depression and lack of joy.
Similarly, if every negative situation in your life result in sadness, there is every likelihood that you may never really be happy in life. This is because of the fact that life is full of challenges, as one problem is being solved, another may spring up. You may not be able to control these situations, but you can control your reaction to them.
Make up your mind to be happy. Happiness is a choice. No one can steal your joy unless you permit it!
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
CALL ME- WIZPERT
It was a great pleasure to be invited recently to be a part of one of the fastest growing community of experts on diverse topics-WIZPERT. Friends we now have the opportunity to interact one on one discussing issues on relationships- dating, marriage, family, conflicts, personal growth, love, spirituality.
Just click the button on my blog or connect directly to Wizpert and click on my name-Stella Oladiran or any other Wizpert. All your need is to have your Skype on to make these calls.
Expecting your calls soon. Cheers!
Just click the button on my blog or connect directly to Wizpert and click on my name-Stella Oladiran or any other Wizpert. All your need is to have your Skype on to make these calls.
Expecting your calls soon. Cheers!
Monday, April 23, 2012
THE RESULTS OF WRONG COMPANY
Relationships play a vital role in the sharpening of your mind. For instance you may know what is right but your group of friends may not be a source of encouragement. If you lack the courage to pursue your goals because you are in the midst of wrong company you may never realize them.
Many lives have been ruined as a result of wrong company and association. Once a relationship does not bring you positive additions, particularly in reasoning, you are not safe. There is no toeing the middle line.
It is much better to walk alone than to walk with men and women of unlike minds.
Please make a careful appraisal of your relationships, else what looks "cheerful" today may become "tearful" tomorrow.
Many lives have been ruined as a result of wrong company and association. Once a relationship does not bring you positive additions, particularly in reasoning, you are not safe. There is no toeing the middle line.
It is much better to walk alone than to walk with men and women of unlike minds.
Please make a careful appraisal of your relationships, else what looks "cheerful" today may become "tearful" tomorrow.
Thursday, March 22, 2012
HONESTY- STILL THE BEST POLICY
So many relationship fail due to dishonesty. Some people have the habit of covering up their errors, past mistakes and pretending as if nothing happened. Some go into relationships giving falsified information about themselves, how long can it last? the truth will surely come out somebody. Then what happens? Anger, bitterness and at times, painful break-ups.
Beloved, it is always the best to go into any form of relationships- dating, marriage,business relationships with a sincere heart, not concealing things that are capable of creating friction in future.
Believe it, if someone will not take for who you are, that relationship is not worth the effort. Be yourself! Speak the truth always, it will earn you self-respect and peace of mind.
Honesty is the best policy! http://www.amazon.com/winning-formulas-stella-oladiran/dp/1456781391/ref
Beloved, it is always the best to go into any form of relationships- dating, marriage,business relationships with a sincere heart, not concealing things that are capable of creating friction in future.
Believe it, if someone will not take for who you are, that relationship is not worth the effort. Be yourself! Speak the truth always, it will earn you self-respect and peace of mind.
Honesty is the best policy! http://www.amazon.com/winning-formulas-stella-oladiran/dp/1456781391/ref
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
MANAGING CONFLICTS IN MARRIAGE
Building a successful marriage is hard work. like every other relationships conflicts are bound to arise occasionally. The following guidelines will help you in managing such conflicts:
1, Take time to evaluate yourself by sitting down quietly for minutes.
2, Replace negative thoughts about your spouse with positive ones.
3, Suspend judgment and criticism so as to prepare your mind to hear your spouse explanation.
4, Make sure you speak to your spouse with respectful words.
5, Admit it when you are wrong. It take humility and self-evaluation to build a successful relationship.
1, Take time to evaluate yourself by sitting down quietly for minutes.
2, Replace negative thoughts about your spouse with positive ones.
3, Suspend judgment and criticism so as to prepare your mind to hear your spouse explanation.
4, Make sure you speak to your spouse with respectful words.
5, Admit it when you are wrong. It take humility and self-evaluation to build a successful relationship.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
THE ANSWER TO EVERY CHALLENGE
Courage is crucial for a life of impact. It is the backbone of all commanders. That is why if you are not courageous, you never become a commander. For sure, in every area of human endeavor there are challenges, but courage is what you need to deal with them. it is the answer to every challenge, no matter its size or duration
Sunday, January 8, 2012
NO REVERSE GEAR IN LIFE
There is no reverse gear in life. It is impossible to go back to yesterday.
Yesterday is gone and is gone for good. The tragedy of life is that is many get wise too late, and at the end of the day, everybody will become wise on his death bed.
Yesterday is gone and is gone for good. The tragedy of life is that is many get wise too late, and at the end of the day, everybody will become wise on his death bed.
Friday, January 6, 2012
OLD THINGS HAVE PAST AWAY!
Beloved, a new year is here, the old one is gone forever. For some the former year is one they will remember with gladness, for others they may have mixed feeling because it wasn't particularly a good year for them and yet there is another category of people that would remember the year with sadness. What ever group you belong to, it is time to let go of all the mixed emotions of the past year; Old things have past away.
It is time to make plans, for your hopes and aspirations for this year. Start early, there is no time to waste. Brooding over the past or unending celebration of your past victory will retard your progress.
Draw up a realistic list of what you want to achieve this year and begin to tick them as they are accomplished.
But remember, you might not be able to achieve all. Just do your best; and always endeavor to commit everything into the hand of God in prayers. Don't fret when trials come ( they are part of life), be still, resolute in your determination to succeed. Wishing the very best of this wonderful year!
It is time to make plans, for your hopes and aspirations for this year. Start early, there is no time to waste. Brooding over the past or unending celebration of your past victory will retard your progress.
Draw up a realistic list of what you want to achieve this year and begin to tick them as they are accomplished.
But remember, you might not be able to achieve all. Just do your best; and always endeavor to commit everything into the hand of God in prayers. Don't fret when trials come ( they are part of life), be still, resolute in your determination to succeed. Wishing the very best of this wonderful year!
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